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We had our first cousin Valentine party last year and it was so fun that Levi and I decided it might need to become a tradition around here. I know not everyone would agree, but I think Valentines Day is great. And now that I am the mama of two boys I have to take advantage of this day because it might be my only chance to plan a party with lots of pink and hearts and get away with it. I don’t think Joel will let me throw any girly, pink birthday parties for the boys. So…Valentines day it is! 🙂
They had the mailboxes in the dollar spot at Target again. They were a hit last year and this year they had turquoise mailboxes! Love that. So I went with a turquoise/red/pink theme. Besides the mailboxes, all the other decorations were things I had on hand. 
I might have to leave the happy heart banner up for awhile. It makes my kitchen so cheery. You can find the tutorial for the happy heart banner here.
Instead of Valentines, I made a cousin memory game for Levi to give to each of his cousins. It was inspired by this one from Jones Design Company. Perfect for a cousin Valentine party! The kids drank red fruit punch from mason jars and red striped paper straws from Garnish.

The vinyl polka dot table cloth was on clearance at Walmart at the end of the summer. I used kraft paper down the middle of the table and cut out water color hearts to spread around the table.
 There were eight “big” cousins and three new baby cousins this year. The big cousins feasted on homemade macaroni and fruit. Yum. (Did you notice all of Levi’s cousins are drinking red juice but him. He doesn’t like juice…crazy. He couldn’t part with his milk cup. Doesn’t quite go with the theme…but, whatever!)
Before the party, Levi and I made sugar cookies to decorate.

 Each cousin got to decorate two cookies to eat. Lots of frosting was used.
And lots and lots…
 and lots of sprinkles.

 Levi didn’t even bother eating the cookies. Just frosting and sprinkles for him.
And of course a big mess. But it is worth getting sprinkles everywhere when you are having so much fun with your cousins.
The baby cousins just hung out on the couch while all the sugar consumption was going on. There were actually three babies, but somehow we only managed to get a picture of these two. It is hard to believe that next year they will be running all around with the rest of them!
There is lots of cousin love around here. Levi and Griffin are blessed to be able to grow up with so many of their cousins. We will definitely have to have a cousin Valentine party again next year. At least I get to plan a girly party once a year, right?!
Last year’s cousin Valentine party was featured on several blogs this month:
Thanks for the Valentine love ladies! You can see the original post from last year’s party here.
Phew. I’m glad I finally got this posted before the week got away from me. 🙂 
Hope you all have a great weekend!
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  • May - Just Lovely,,,, Im so happy for you and your family,,, the best thing yo uhave is your family,,, SUPPORT is the key and FAITH in God.

    Lots of love
    The children are all so lovely ,God bless and May He shower you all with Health, Love and Prosperity
    May

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  • Mum2twopreciousgifts - You have a baby? You have a very active Levi? AND you make time to plan a BEAUTIFUL looking party?? #Jessisamazing!!

    Prayers coming your way for a night of uninterrupted sleep. Let me know when Griffin obliges so I can stop praying for your sleep 🙂

    p.s. Can you please adopt me so I can get out my passport and come to the next cousin party? It looked extraordinary.

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  • Clutter-Free Classroom - Oh my goodness….this looks like it’s right out of a Martha Stewart catalog!! I love it.

    ❤Jodi from…
    ★★The Clutter-Free Classroom★★
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  • Nancy - so fun..where did you get the little table and chairs? ThanksReplyCancel

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  • Kristi REDISKE - So Cute and looks so fun! I love the little mail boxes-Target always has cute dollar stuff. I love the chalkboard and the painted hearts-what a great idea! I want to make that chalkboard-what kind of wood did you use for it-I am pretty sure you made it sometime. Did you buy chalkboard paint?ReplyCancel

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  • Our Family of Four - such a cute party idea- and such cute kiddos! those mailboxes are adorable. i wish the target here had a dollar section!ReplyCancel

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  • Katie - You always throw the cutest parties!! I am in love with the mailboxes. I just wanted to tell you thanks for the info you sent me on camera lenses and tutorials. I never got you emailed back, but I appreciate it so much! I am having a hard time keeping up with everything now that I am back to work after maternity leave. So sorry for the delayed thank you!ReplyCancel

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  • Meggie - How cute!! Everything looked so adorable and fun! I know all the cousins had a ball and enjoyed their party. Thanks for sharing your creativity and party planning skills with us!ReplyCancel

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  • Mama in the City - Love it! Another fun party. I wish Canada would get Target here, those mini mailboxes are such a great find!ReplyCancel

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  • Lori - Such a cute and fun idea! Love all the details.ReplyCancel

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  • Alex and Jill - Love your cousin valentine party! We had a cousin party too + a couple of friends. 🙂 I’m with you…love Valentine’s Day and I think we’ll make this a tradition as well!ReplyCancel

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  • Miss G - We had a cousin party too and my little gut did the same lick frosting off the knife trick:). KellyReplyCancel

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  • ABBY - Really cute!! You do such a beautiful job on your parties. 🙂ReplyCancel

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  • Stef - LOVE! I saw the little mailboxes at Target and thought about buying them for… something… but that’s my problem. My brain can see a cute thing but then I have no idea what to do with it 🙂ReplyCancel

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  • Ginny @ Chasing Sunshine - I just love your blog, your story and this party! I am a new follower via GFC.

    XOXO Ginny
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  • Jody - I asked my sister if I could celebrate Dr. Seuss’ birthday with my niece since the classrooms celebrate Dr. Seuss and not the library. Maybe I’ll invite our cousin’s little boy over to join us.ReplyCancel

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  • Miss Harriet. - Such a cute little party! What fun ideas too. Can’t wait to have my own little people to plan parties for! 🙂ReplyCancel

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  • Kimberlee - I love your cousin posts.
    I grew up with my cousins being so much like siblings…I imagine your kids will feel the same way.
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  • Emily Kate - Um cutest lil arty ever, wish we were cousins!!ReplyCancel

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  • cousin valentine party :: 2014 » The Macs - […] party on Saturday. So crazy…but so fun! You can see our past valentine parties here, here and here. My how we’ve grown! This year there were thirteen cousins in […]ReplyCancel

I tried really hard to get a smiley picture of me and my two little loves.
This was the best we could do.
one very tired mama
(with very sleepy eyes) 
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one two year old about to have a major Valentine meltdown
(he had just consumed a large amount of sugar and it was way past nap time)
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one sweet four month old baby
(who is also the reason his mama is very tired)
We had fun celebrating Valentines Day around here though.
There were hearts everywhere and cousins running around everywhere too!
Heart cookies.
Heart decorations.
And lots of sprinkles.
I’ll tell you all about our cousin party soon…after I recover from the sugar overload and get a little more sleep (if a certain little boy will let me)!
Happy heart day!
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  • Allie - Awe I love it all!! Happy Valentines day!!!ReplyCancel

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  • Katy @ Live Laugh Love Craft - I always love seeing your parties. 🙂 Cute picture of you and your boys! Happy VDay!ReplyCancel

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  • May - HAPPY VALENTINES DAY SWEETIE, TO YOU AND YOUR BEAUTIFUL FAMILY. Sleep Zzzzz makes everyone happier and better….

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  • melissa - Happy valentines day!ReplyCancel

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  • Stef - I think its a great pic!
    Happy Valentine’s Day to you guys!ReplyCancel

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  • Amanda - Adorable! I especially love the sprinkle infested cookie 🙂 haha

    Happy Valentine’s Day to you and your little family! :)xoxoReplyCancel

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  • Mum2twopreciousgifts - Happy Valentine’s Day from the other side of the planet.

    Where it will very soon tick over into 16 February. I love how we will ALWAYS get things first here. But I don’t love the fact we don’t have Reece’s pieces 🙁

    Your photos are just beautiful Jess. I will add in some prayers for sweet dreams for Griffin, and you.

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  • The Moffats - Happy (late) Valentines Day! Can’t believe how fast Griffin is changing!! We did your little heart banner thing and the boys had fun – although most of our hearts were barely recognizable! 🙂 Love seeing your pretty face. Miss you lots.ReplyCancel

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  • LauraD - Hope y’all had a wonderful and blessed Valentine’s day. I know those boys of yours got a few extra hugs and squeezes yesterday! Love to all.ReplyCancel

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  • Anonymous - It’s a great picture of you and your boys!!!ReplyCancel

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  • MICHELE - Jess, from one now ex-tired (who am I kidding I am still tired) momma to another have you heard of this site?
    http://www.babysleepsite.com/
    I have HORRIBLE sleepers. Micah proved to me how much worse it could get. I tried all I knew and then found this site. She emails me weekly or every few days with tips and it changed my nights. I know Griffin is still young, but just thought I would share. I know how hard it can be taking care of a busy toddler and feeling like a zombie.

    PS Love love love how cute your parties are I wish I could pull stuff off like that!!ReplyCancel

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  • Cindy - Happy Heart Day to you too! Looking forward to reading about your cousin party…the last one was so precious!!ReplyCancel

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  • Michelle - You have two very cute Valentine’s! Well worth any sleep deprivation. 😉

    I’ve said this before, but your posts are like a breath of fresh air. 🙂 I can honestly say when I’m having “one of those days”, your blog is one of few things that will put a smile on my face. 🙂ReplyCancel

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  • Paula Aspacher - look for hazelaid– online. for the baby– they are infant necklaces.. look for the one that will help him sleep or help with teething etc. my friends 7 month old has been wearing hers for about 1 1/2 month and it helps.. she doesn’t even drool anymore and she was such wet one… i have bought baltic-amber for a runner’s ankle and is helping, i have bought for my friend and daughter who have stomach problems. give it a try http://www.hazelaid.com
    you may get some sleep!ReplyCancel

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  • Lexie Loo, Lily Boo, and Dylan Too! - Happy Valentine’s Day! I hope you got some sleep!ReplyCancel

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  • Cathy - I’ve followed your blog since it’s beginning – and had to comment today 🙂 What CUTE CUTE CUTE babies you have! I can completely relate to your tired eyes… my youngest three are 5, 3, and 2 – and my 2 year old RARELY sleeps through the night. I see the light at the end of the tunnel though – so that helps a little!ReplyCancel

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  • Lyssa at Living Simple in the South - Jes! Love the banner! We made some at our house too, a little different, but equally as fun 🙂
    I know where you are coming from with the tired and I had to share this with you!
    I started laying ALly down awake and she started sleeping through the night and is taking consistent naps!
    It has been SUCH A BLESSING in our home and I wanted to share it with you since Griffin is her age and encourage you to try it if you feel like is something that fits you guys!
    I didnt try this with Weston utnil he was older and I was exhausted, but when Ally started waking up thirty minutes after I laid her down my mom reminded me of it and I thought she was too young, but it apparently was just what she needed!

    Hope this helps!

    Love,
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  • Merced - Hi, I love the cousin’s party you threw it was so cute! But what I really loved what the quilt hanging on the chair behind you in the picture of you and your boys. I was wondering do you have a bigger picture of that quilt, or even better a pattern for it? It is so fun and happy!
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I wanted to think of some Valentine decorations that Levi could help me make his year. I came up with a watercolor heart banner that was inspired by these watercolor animal silhouettes. We will definitely have to make the animal silhouettes in the future…a little more boyish. But since it is February, we made heart silhouettes instead and strung them together to make a happy heart banner.
Here is what you need:

watercolors & paintbrush
white paper or cardstock
construction paper (for heart cutouts)
scissors/paper cutter
hole punch
bakers twine or string
tape
Before you call in your busy toddler, cut out the hearts and pennant shapes for the banner. But if your house is like mine, your busy toddler will notice and say, “What doin’ Mama?”. And then he will want to help. 🙂
If you need something to do with your leftover heart strips, check out these hanging heart charms. So fun and simple.
Now kiss all the hearts while your mama finishes getting everything ready.
Tape one heart onto each pennant shape. I used painters tape and it worked great. It stuck well enough that the hearts didn’t move while we were painting, but came right off without tearing the paper when we were done.
Now paint away! We had some new paints, so I just took out the reds and pinks so that Levi would only use those colors.
Levi did really well until he decided he actually preferred painting with water and not paint. Lots of water.
And then he decided he needed to taste the water too. Nice red lips, dude.
He made it through three hearts and then he was done. The ones he got too much water on bled through a little and the heart shape wasn’t as defined, but I love that because I know which ones are his! The colors are brighter and the heart is more defined the less water you use. Next time I will just give him some paper when he is done and he can paint with water to his little hearts content. Why didn’t I think of that before??
I finished up the rest of the painting and then we left them on the table to dry.
When they are dry peel off the construction paper hearts and this is how they should look.
Punch holes in the top corners and string the hearts onto the twine. I used a small hole punch and strung the twine through with a crochet needle.
And now you have a happy heart banner…that even your toddler can help you make.
When Levi took his nap I couldn’t help but paint a little more. You know, because I am well rested and have so much free time these days! This time I made a turquoise happy heart banner.
A certain little boy has been going through a very whiny stage lately. Oh man, it is hard to figure out how to teach kids not to whine…at least it is hard for me! We have been talking a lot about having a happy heart, not a whiny heart. That we need to be thankful and cheerful because God has blessed us SO much.
We are working on memorizing this verse while we eat breakfast in the mornings. Sometimes when Levi is in trouble he will repeat to himself, “Have a happy heart, have a happy heart.” It is so sweet. But last week when I asked him if he was having a happy heart he told me that Ishama took it. (Ishama and Bobby are his two imaginary friends…that is a whole other blog post.) Ha, ha. Nice try, Levi. I hope you get your happy heart back soon!
We hung two of the banners in the kitchen for our cousin party next week and took one to the cemetery for Sissy. Now there are happy hearts hanging all around. And every time Levi walks through the kitchen he is reminded to have a happy heart…a good reminder for me too!
Have a happy weekend!
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  • Kimberly - So precious … this post made my heart happy! Thanks for sharing 🙂ReplyCancel

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  • Alexis - Such a perfect post! The “not perfect hearts” are the best! Your little guys are just too cute! I can’t wait to do projects like this with my little guy.ReplyCancel

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  • Kimberley - so sweet!!! i love it!!! and i love that you called cora sissy! precious!!!ReplyCancel

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  • Mum2twopreciousgifts - FANTABULOUS post Jess. Love it.

    I am the world’s MOST uncreative person. Maybe that is somehow related to the fact that I’m an Accountant?

    BUT, whatever is in the water in Kansas with the creativity that you and Meg and Julie have makes me so jealous.

    Well done on the painting Levi!

    Michelle from Australia 🙂ReplyCancel

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  • Anonymous - What an adorable post! 🙂
    ~MelissaReplyCancel

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  • Melanie Martini - Adorable! I love this post. 🙂 You have certainly helped me start my day with a ‘happy heart’.ReplyCancel

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  • Andrea - Such a beautiful post – reading the proverbs cheered my heart 🙂 Remembering Cora with you too.ReplyCancel

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  • Meggie - Love this! You are so creative and crafty. I want to be more like that! Maybe one day…

    Also loved the verse to memorize, especially as a good reminder to a toddler not to whine (and me too if I’m being honest!). I think we’ll start memorizing that one today. =) Thanks for sharing!ReplyCancel

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  • Kristi REDISKE - Loved this-it would be fun to do this with my grandkiddos! I also want to make the chalkboard-I know you made a post on how to make that-is there a way to see that again? I can’t remember when it was. I also agree with Kimberley in her comment that i loved seeing you call cora sissy-so sweet! Praying for your family this week and all the others weeks too-:)ReplyCancel

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  • My name is Amee - I just love this post! Yours & Levi’s heart banner turned out just perfect! Love how you let him get right in there & let him help you! 🙂
    Happy Valentines Day to you & your sweet family. :)rillstatReplyCancel

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  • Kelly Ford - How cute! Your boys are so lucky to have a mom who likes doing fun crafts 🙂

    Um, and i’m sure that each time you post something about a particular phase, you get 100 assuming people like me who share advice so feel free to stop reading, but!…

    We deal with whinyness alot around here w/ our little girl. The way I handle most things like this is to practice the “right” way to ask for things when she doesnt actually want anything. (ie: “Rhyan, if you wanted to ask mama to read a book to you, you could say in a big girl voice Mommy! Read a book to me, please?!” and then i ask her to repeat in a happy heart kind of tone and she does and i give lots of praise for knowing how to use a big girl tone and not a whiny tone. And then when she IS whiny, i remind her that she knows how to ask like a big girl.

    Works for her. Dont know about for your boys 🙂

    I read somewhere once that babies dont know what “dont whine” means. They have to have an alternative offered to them. I try to remember that she doesnt know it all yet when i’m frustrated.

    But seriously, love the banner 🙂ReplyCancel

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  • Lauri - LOVE the hearts! Your kids are the cutest kids ever! And you must write about the imaginary friends, lol. Love their names, ha! My brother had an imaginary friend named Juan who asked for aqua all the time. He is 37 now, and Im sure he goes in his room and said Juan did it! lol. Happy Valentines Day from NC to your sweet family.ReplyCancel

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  • Anonymous - Seriously Jess! If you weren’t so dang sweet, I couldn’t even like you. You are too amazing!!! AndiReplyCancel

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  • Trish - what a good reminder for us all! love you creativity 🙂ReplyCancel

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  • meg duerksen - annie will LOVE this.
    she is desperate to craft with me….i will show her.
    i bet she kisses the hearts too!ReplyCancel

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  •  The Morris Family - sywhat a sweet time and memory!!!! They are in our hearts forever!!! ~Joel ~Cora!!

    Do you mind me asking where you got your chalkboard or did you make it, if you made it, where do you get the chalk board stuff??

    thanks,
    Cindy
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  • Rich and Carolyn Dewey - Very cute!ReplyCancel

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  • Nicole - You are awesome!! Few moms of barely 2 yr olds would even attempt a full-on craft but you rock!! I am in awe. Really I am. Levi is blessed lil man that’s for sure! I laughed out loud at the imaginary friend stealing his happy heart. Priceless!ReplyCancel

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  • Nicole - You are awesome!! Few moms of barely 2 yr olds would even attempt a full-on craft but you rock!! I am in awe. Really I am. Levi is blessed lil man that’s for sure! I laughed out loud at the imaginary friend stealing his happy heart. Priceless!ReplyCancel

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  • Nicole - You are awesome!! Few moms of barely 2 yr olds would even attempt a full-on craft but you rock!! I am in awe. Really I am. Levi is blessed lil man that’s for sure! I laughed out loud at the imaginary friend stealing his happy heart. Priceless!ReplyCancel

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  • Colleen - When my daughter was two, she had two imaginary friends who’s name were Tenna and Oka. Then a third one came along named Bella. She blamed everything on them! It was so funny. I’ve had four kids and she was the only one with imaginary friends. I love reading your blog. Such sweet babies you have.ReplyCancel

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  • Robyn B - I don’t know if anyone mentioned this, but when my guy was about Levi’s age, he LOVED the “paint with water” books. Did you ever do those? Seems like he would like it, since all he has to do is dip his littel brush in water, and then “paint” the page and colors magically appear!ReplyCancel

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  • Sarah - So cute! Have you ever done a blog post on how you did your big chalk board?ReplyCancel

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  • Susan - Oh my, how neat!! I posted a picture with that exact scripture on my blog.ReplyCancel

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  • Sarah Whitworth - My grandmother used to let us ‘paint’ outside at her house. We each got a container of water and ‘real’ paintbrushes–bigger ones– and we ‘painted’ the sidewalk and the outside of her house with water. We loved it! Your story of Levi painting with water reminded me.ReplyCancel

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  • Karina - So simple, so lovely! And you are such a good mama for letting Levi paint…I still have a hard time with that!

    I’m sorry I didn’t stop in to hug you (at least through the computer) on your anniversary of Cora’s passing…Still think of her a lot and can’t believe it’s been another year.ReplyCancel

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  • Grace Halsey - This was a great project for my kids–they loved it! Your blog is so encouraging. Thank you for taking the time to write!ReplyCancel

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  • Rob and Andrea - Jess, I just adore your creative style! I don’t know what you might call your decorating style, but I just LOVE it! We have been in our house for 3 years now and while I love our house, I feel like everything is too matchy-matchy. I really desire a look that coordinates instead of “matches” with lots of personal touches! I am slowly changing things here and there. Thanks for sharing all of your creative ideas 🙂ReplyCancel

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  • Kate@SongsKateSang - Amen.ReplyCancel

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  • Heather - I Love Love you chalkboard wall!! {and the banner and the scripture and the little chairs} Was your wall photographed for Petunia Pickle bottom? Thought it looked like the same one on their facebook page.

    Just found your blog…recommending it to friends 🙂ReplyCancel

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  • Anonymous - Super cute!! So fun 🙂

    Just another idea…on a hot summer day, my little ones love to paint the sidewalk and drivway with water and large brushes. No paint! Just a bucket of water and some $2 brushes from Walmart. Lots of fun, no mess besides water and a great way to stay cool in the summer 🙂

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  • the brokaws - so cute! i had to try it with my son…we even did a little blog post of our own about some of our valentine projects including this one! the verse made me smile too…we need some reminders about the whining trouble from time to time as well! 🙂ReplyCancel

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  • Heather at Happy Chippy Junk - Love the chalk board and EVERYTHING around it. It is now my wall paper on my computer. So sweet!ReplyCancel

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  • Anonymous - I have that little red chair and my grandma bought it at an auction IN KANSAS. I wonder if they belonged together long ago.ReplyCancel

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  • 4cutekids - love love love this…..where did you find this chalkboard? Love this blog … One of my fav blog pages I have got a lot of ideas here…ReplyCancel

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  • Rikelle - Love the chalkboard. Such an important thing to rememberReplyCancel

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cora’s heaven birthday  ::  february 8, 2012
We have always called this day Cora’s heavenly anniversary. But this year it changed. As I talked with Levi about his sissy and what we were going to do on this day he kept asking, “Cora’s birthday?”. I told him that it isn’t Cora’s birthday, it is the day Cora went to be with Jesus. The day Cora went to heaven. But as we talked throughout the week we finally decided it is kind of like Cora’s birthday. It is actually even better than a birthday. It is Cora’s heaven birthday. Levi looked at me and said, “Cora not sad. Cora sooooo happy.” So true baby boy, so true. When we all get to heaven what a day of rejoicing that will be!
Yesterday was a very dreary day around here and we were feeling it both inside and out. Joel thought he was getting over the flu but barely made it out the door to go to work yesterday morning and was throwing up again. Talk about making an already hard day even worse. Poor hubby. We were planning to start off Cora’s heaven birthday by eating donuts together. But instead Joel went back to bed and the boys and I went to eat our donuts and pick up some flowers for Cora. The donuts were yummy and Levi had a fabulous time riding in the car cart at the grocery store. (Really, who invented those things? The car cart is Levi’s dream ride but totally impossible for me to push around the store. I was just thankful to make it through the isles without running into someone or something!) We picked out some pretty pink roses for Cora and went home to check on daddy.
After lunch we drove down the road to the cemetery. Joel was sweet and drug himself out of bed to come with us. Levi and I had made a happy heart banner for Cora earlier in the week. I figured he would forget about it, but every time he saw the one we had hung up in our kitchen he would ask about Cora’s happy hearts. So we found some sticks and tied up a happy heart banner in front of her memorial stone. I think that it is the prettiest spot in the whole cemetery right now. This was Griffin’s first trip to the cemetery with us…he slept through the whole thing. The rest of the day we spent at home hanging out and trying to let Joel recover from the flu. My sweet sister and brother-in-law brought us out dinner last night so we didn’t have to cook. So nice.
We went to bed thankful for the Lord’s compassion and grace that brought us through another year without our Cora. Thankful for the eleven months we were blessed to be Cora’s parents. Thankful for Cora’s life that was short but full of purpose. Thankful for Cora’s little brothers who now fill our arms each day. We prayed that Cora’s life would continue to impact others for Jesus and that we would always be faithful to share her story and the Lord’s faithfulness to our family. And that was Cora’s heaven birthday, February 8, 2012.
Thank you so much for your comments, cards, emails, texts and phone calls yesterday. We know that our sweet girl is not forgotten and we appreciate your prayers more than we could ever express. We felt loved and covered in prayer all day. You all are a huge part of this journey through grief with us. Thank you for walking beside us even on these hard days.We love you all!
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  • My name is Amee - Awwwww, Jess. This post about Cora gave me chill bumps. I’m thinking & praying for y’all at this difficult time. (((hugs))) to y’all.
    Your photo collage is beyond precious!!!!!ReplyCancel

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  • Erin - Beautiful day for a beautiful girl. Praying for you. Cora and your boys are so blessed to have you as their Mommy.ReplyCancel

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  • Caroline Hester - Praying for you today and always! Your story has touched my heart. If I am ever blessed with a little girl, I might name her Cora!ReplyCancel

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  • Anonymous - Praying for you and your precious family! God loves you all.ReplyCancel

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  • Toni :O) - Still praying for your sweet family…always and forever. I’m glad your two adorable boys can fill your arms and give you hope and joy!ReplyCancel

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  • ashley - I still think of Cora often & pray for your family. I think you celebrated her heavenly birthday beautifully.ReplyCancel

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  • Erin Tagle - I loveeee that you call it her heaven birthday.ReplyCancel

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  • Emily - reading your post made me tear up a bit. what a sweet boy levi is to bring hearts to his sister on her heaven birthday. i love how he said that she is so happy. isn’t it amazing how kids can be so insightful?

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  • Sunshine - You have the most precious heart, I love to come here and read about your sweet family. I am SO very sorry for what you all have been through. Thank you for sharing your journey here, may God continue to lavish you with love and with grace. Sunshine

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  • Mum2twopreciousgifts - Dear Jess

    You can say, and mean it, that people all over the world were joined in prayer to send you strength, thoughts and love.

    I feel I am the lucky one to have been able to be inspired, educated, provoked into thought and prayer and reflection, by praying for you all since Cora became ill before going Home to God.

    Thank you Jess for sharing your journey. This comes with a cyber hug that I hope, one day, I may be able to deliver in person over coffee and donuts!

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  • Amy - Thought of you often yesterday, but especially when we were at Wesley… loving on our sweet new little niece. The last time I was actually in the hospital there is when Sarah and I came to see you guys.

    Love the happy hearts banner. 🙂ReplyCancel

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  • Beki - TheRustedChain - It may seem strange to you, but that is truly a day I’ll never forget. We got a text from R. Jost with the news… I felt like I’d been kicked in the gut. And I cried uncontrollably for 4 hours. My husband had to take my kids out just so I could be alone to process it.

    Hopefully not much longer until we all get to heaven and have that day of rejoicing!!ReplyCancel

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  • Lindsay - I’ve never met you, but have read and followed your story for 3 years now. I pray for your beautiful family regularly. Cora, Levi and Griffin are so blessed to have parents like you. Happy heaven birthday sweet Cora.ReplyCancel

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  • May - Dear Jess,

    Thank you for sharing CORA with us,,, She is such a beautiful baby…. Im happy that you called this day Cora’s Heavenly Birthday ,,,How beautiful and befitting such a sweet child. God was GRACIOUS,,, He took Cora away and didn’t let her undergo surgery, after more chemo, after more surgeries. He took her to His Most Wonderful Home, and she is playing with Angels now. God bless you, your husband and your beautiful children. Thank you. Thank you for sharing and empowering us with your strength, perseverance and faith. Gods blessings on all of you.ReplyCancel

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  • Kate - Jess, I’m praying for you. I just want to give Levi a big hug for you.. what a precious, precious boy.ReplyCancel

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  • The Schilling's from Cimarron - Jess and Joel….
    No words…. just praying for you and loving you from a distance!
    My heart was filled with love for you especially on Coras heaven birthday!
    All our love…..
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  • Tara - praying for you and your sweet family this week.ReplyCancel

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  • DianeTaylor - What a great way to spend Cora’s heavenly day – I love that Levi said how happy she is. I believe that with all my heart – those who dwell in the house of the Lord rejoice. It is we who still live within the bounds of earth that must face days without our loved ones. Praying for you all today (sorry, I missed the actual day but better late than never).

    The banner is just precious. I know Cora loves it!

    Take care and have a blessed weekend. I hope Joel feels better soon!

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  • Natalie - Thank you for sharing such a special day! Thinking of and praying for your precious family this week.ReplyCancel

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  • Rachel - A beautiful way to celebrate such a special little girl. Praying for you today and always.ReplyCancel

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  • Alyssa Hollis - Praying for you guys as I always do. Thank you for sharing your life with everyone. You all are once again amazing. There is not a day that goes by I do not think of you all. Your boys are so sweet I love how levi said ” cora soooo happy!” Instant tears! sweetest thing I have ever heard.ReplyCancel

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  • Don, Aimee, Kaitlyn and Kysen - My heart is heavy this week for you! We to celebrate a heaven birthday of my grandpa on February 6th which this year was 15 years in heaven and I miss him as much today as 15 years ago but through the cross of Christ I know we will be reunited as you will be with your sweet daughter! The Footsteps Poem is always what I turn to during the tough days! Prayers to your family!ReplyCancel

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  • meg duerksen - i love the way you celebrate her.
    that banner is just the sweetest.
    love you jess.
    what a blessing mr. levi is too….his words are just perfect.
    i wish none of it had happened but so thankful for God’s plan.ReplyCancel

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  • Jenni Lynn - I love that you talk to Levi about Cora, about her and heaven and Jesus. Kids can grasp so much at a young age and I love that you don’t hold back from Levi. I love that he knows he has a sister and talks about her. You are a wonderful mother.ReplyCancel

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  • Rich and Carolyn Dewey - Have been praying for you all week. Love how you celebrate’s Cora’s life in such sweet and memorable ways! They will burrow deep into your boys’ lives, as well as you and Joel. Blessings to all!ReplyCancel

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  • Anonymous - I think it’s great that you have shared Cora with Levi from the very beggining of his life! How neat to hear how he responds! He’ll always know of his big sister and what an impact she has on God’s kingdom! God bless you and your family!ReplyCancel

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  • Lindsay - Cora’s heaven birthday is a great way to remember her and celebrate her reunion with God in heaven all in the same moment. God’s blessings to you.ReplyCancel

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  • Townsend Crew - Been following you since Cora was diagnosed and praying with you continually. I comment today because you caused me to reflect on my own family… My parents first child & my older brother died at 9 months (SIDS) before I was born. The 4 of us who arrived after him never had a chance to celebrate his life and know him… as with grief, our parents moved on, remembering him in their own way, I guess. You are giving your children a gift of a lifetime! Continue celebrating Cora with the boys on the choking anniversaries and every day. She will always be important to them, as my brother is to me… 49 years after his death.ReplyCancel

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  • TimandCeri - “Levi looked at me and said, “Cora not sad. Cora sooooo happy.” So true baby boy, so true. When we all get to heaven what a day of rejoicing that will be!”.

    Oh Jess, that brought tears to my eyes. I have been praying and thinking of you so often. You are an inspiration, and example of the good and faithful servant God wants us to be. Thank you for sharing your story with us.ReplyCancel

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  • Candice - This post brought a tear to my eye. Thinking of you and remembering sweet Cora today!ReplyCancel

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  • Cassie - Praying and remembering sweet Cora!! Hugs to you all!ReplyCancel

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  • Cindy - Oh, Jess – how beautiful! There’s no better name for such a difficult day than a “heaven birthday”! Thanks for giving me the words to share these kinds of anniversaries with my children! You have been so inspiring to me in so many ways, and I thank you for sharing your story. I think of you and your sweet Cora often…we actually share the same birthday. Hugs and prayers to you!ReplyCancel

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  • Mikaela - There isn’t a day (really) that I don’t think of you and your little Cora Paige. Her life has been a blessing to me and a reminder to cherish each moment. Thanks for continuing to share your journey. May you continue to find peace and purpose in our Savior! Hugs from WIReplyCancel

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  • maticki - lovely little girl.love that fact you started to call it heavenly birthday. I don’t believe in god, so I don’t pray but I do think about your little girl a lot.

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  • Princess Martha - Its nice to see photos of you smiling with your boys on such a tough day. I’m sure Cora would be proud of you.I love the heart banner you and Levi made for Cora. Sweet.ReplyCancel

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  • Lexie Loo, Lily Boo, and Dylan Too! - Much love to you and your family!ReplyCancel

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  • teresa - levi’s words, “cora not sad. cora sooooooo happy” are a blessing. these little ones get it. thanks for sharing your journey and cora’s heavenly birthday.ReplyCancel

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  • Angela Webb - I found your blog a few months ago through a friend’s pin on pinterest. Your story is beautiful. A friend of mine, Judy (Myer) Andujar lost her sweet baby son a little over a week ago to SIDS. I can’t imagine what it must feel like to lose a child, but I have been in complete awe of her response to this tragedy; she is still praising the Lord and allowing Him to heal her broken heart and restore her joy. I sent her an email letting her know that my husband and I are praying for her, and attached a link to Cora’s story, reminding her that she wasn’t alone. Ironically, she knows you and your hubby from high school and diligently prayed for you while you were going through such a tough time with the loss of your own sweet baby girl. I thank God for your faith and Judy’s faith; for showing me that even on the hardest of days, the Lord is still sovereign and still loves us. Thank you for sharing your story. May the peace of God continue to keep you sane. 🙂ReplyCancel

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  • Melanie Mueller - I love that Levi helped make it Cora’s Heaven Birthday!! That is so sweet!
    Looks like you spent the day in a perfect way to celebrate your beautiful Cora! Love your collage! Praying for you and your sweet family!!!

    Btw, I totally feel you on the car carts. Like driving a bus that doesn’t want to turn through the isles. =)ReplyCancel

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Just a few things as we get ready to face the week that marks the day we had to say goodbye to our little girl. Not my favorite week for sure. But the Lord has given us just what we have needed to get through the past two heavenly anniversaries and I know He will be faithful to do the same as we approach three years without Cora. But instead of dwelling on that, how about a few random pictures of my two silly boys? I’m pretty sure they will be getting some extra squeezes around here this week.
 This boy is pure sweetness. I just love the way he smiles at me. And that twinkle in his eye reminds me so much of his sissy. We have been spending a lot of quality time together in the middle of the night. He likes to wake up frequently and check on me. 🙂
 Griffin got to try out the walker last week and he loves it. And all of a sudden his big brother started noticing him. Imagine that? Levi thinks the walker is awesome. Don’t worry, I know that it is not safe for Levi to be standing on it. Griffin is always closely supervised when cruisin’ in his walker.
 Levi is needing a little extra supervision lately too. This boy is BUSY. I looked over from the couch where I was feeding Griffin and he had sat himself up at the computer and was very busy doing something with my keyboard and mouse. I asked him if he was supposed to be touching Mama’s computer and he said it was his fence for his dinosaurs and cows. Of course, my mistake. 
And the next time I looked over he was calling his daddy on the “phone” asking him what he was doing on the farm. Oh my. Why is it so hard not to laugh when I should probably be disciplining for not obeying?

Last week the weather was amazing. It was so nice to be able to play outside and we have been going on walks as often as we can. The weather was beautiful again today so we hit the dirt roads and went on a walk this morning too. I am even starting to get back to running a little…maybe I need to schedule a race for the near future…a little motivation! Griffin looks like he hates going on walks, but he actually loves it. We were just about home and he didn’t like that I stopped the stroller. He prefers to be on the move.
This week we are going to do a few Valentines projects, play outside as much as we can, take some flowers to the cemetery as we remember our baby girl’s life, try not to all catch the flu (Joel thinks he is getting it today, yuck), and just do our best to embrace with joy whatever this week holds.
Hope you have a great week too!
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  • Kat - Your boys are precious! Praying for you this week as you face Cora’s heavenly anniversary.ReplyCancel

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  • Mindy Harris - you guys are certainly in my prayers. diapers for that baby as soon as i can coordinate. WONDERFUL pics. just want to kiss those boys. eeeeeee!!!ReplyCancel

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  • The Sieberts - praying for you this week Jess!ReplyCancel

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  • Nan - I’ll be thinking about you and praying for you all. We have dear friends who just recently lost their 14 year old daughter… if you could pray for them. I know you will know just how to pray for them in their grief.ReplyCancel

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  • Nirupama - Such sweet babies. My husband wants to know why I’m cracking up at my computer, but that mouse ‘phone’ picture is out of this world. So impressed that you caught him in the act so perfectly. Thanks for sharing 🙂ReplyCancel

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  • It's just Mommer - Praying for you as you face the week ahead.ReplyCancel

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  • This is the day! - Praying for you this week! Your boys are precious and so adorable.ReplyCancel

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  • Rachel - Love to see pics of those busy boys! Praying for God’s continued peace for you today and always.ReplyCancel

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  • Allison - May you be blessed with extra moments of peace, love, and joy during this difficult week.ReplyCancel

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  • Erica - Praying for you this week Jess.ReplyCancel

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  • Lori - Just came across your blog and read about your precious little Cora. What a jewel added to Heaven she is. Knowing that the prayers of others sustain us, even (and sometimes especially!) from strangers, will lift you in prayer this week.

    And those boys…delicious!ReplyCancel

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  • Stef - oh, Jess. My heart is heavy for you this week.
    Today is my birthday and my son’s 7th birthday and we said a prayer for you guys at dinner, because we celebrate, we’re mindful that you guys are grieving and remembering Cora.
    February 8th marks the day we found out (last year) we were expecting our 4th baby. We found out in April, at 13 weeks, that we lost him… and I didn’t think February 8th would be a hard day to come to, because its not the day we lost him. Now I’m realizing any day having to do with his life has a way of bringing joy and sadness at the same time.

    I’m praying for you, my blogger friend.
    For the Lord’s continued peace and comfort.ReplyCancel

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  • Jeri - I am praying that God will surround you with peace and comfort this week. I know there are no words that can esae your hurt but only God has the power to do that.ReplyCancel

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  • Bethany - I will be praying for your whole family this week. I know the sadness over Cora’s loss extends to so many. Praying a hedge of protection over you and for joy and peace to surround you.

    Your boys are too precious. Griffin is getting big so fast. Levi is too. 🙂 I think that age is incredibly difficult to disciple because they are so much fun. Enjoy it and follow your mommy heart.ReplyCancel

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  • Julie - I have followed your blog for almost 2 years and today is the day I feel compelled to comment. I truly can’t imagine what you have gone through. As the 3 year anniversary approaches my heart and prayers are with you and your whole family.
    I have a 3 year old and 1 year old and I am terrified of losing either one of them. Reading your blog helps me to process those fears and to see a glimpse of what it’s like…and how to still find joy even if you do lose one of your babies.
    My sister was killed in a car accident when I was 16 and my parents handled it with unbelievable grace. We still celebrate her life each year on her birthday and on the day she died. We eat chili and angelfood cake (her favorite food and the angelfood cake for our angel in heaven). She died 17 years ago and I still miss her.
    I love seeing pictures and reading your thoughts. Thank you for continuing to follow God’s lead and be a light into so many lives.ReplyCancel

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  • Chelsa - Praying for you guys this week.
    Our 3rd Heavenly anniversary/birthday was Feb. 3. It’s always rough around that time- but having two other sweet boys (I do too) does help!ReplyCancel

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  • Melissa Joy - I will pray extra for you this week. Thank you for sharing your entire family with us, Jess. I wish you were my next door neighbor so my two boys could play with your two boys, and we could talk about our heaven-babies together! 🙂ReplyCancel

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  • Beth - Your kids are so cute! Levi looks a lot like my 2 year old. That walker picture is darling! What a fun big brother!
    I can’t imagine the many emotions you are feeling this week. All I can say is that I’m sending extra prayers to you and your family.
    Thanks so much for sharing your life with us!ReplyCancel

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  • AllTheKingsBlessings - Praying for you this week, Jess. I’m sure it’s so hard. But I love seeing your little boys adorable faces! What a blessing all your babies are.ReplyCancel

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  • Erin Tagle - Your boys are precious and those pictures [and stories about the keyboard fence] made me smile.

    Saying a little prayer for you and your family as you face the week/anniversary.

    xo
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  • Nicole {Miss Mommy} - I’m a new follower of your blog and LOVE it already!. I put a post up on my facebook asking people what their fav blog was and you came up!. I would LOVE it if you came to visit me!.ReplyCancel

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  • Carla - I’m sitting at my desk in work, its 11am here and you suddenly popped into my mind and when I looked at your blog and realised the date, I know why you did now. I am thinking of you and your sweet family today and wishing you strength and peace to face it. Big hugs from a far away stranger ((()))ReplyCancel

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  • Rob and Corrie - It’s February 8th and I am praying for your hearts and minds and arms today.

    Love in our Living Savior.

    “And IF Christ has NOT been raised, your faith is futile; you are still in your sins. Then those also who have fallen asleep in Christ are lost. IF only for this life we have hope in Christ, we are of all people most to be pitied. BUT CHRIST HAS INDEED BEEN RAISED FROM THE DEAD, the firstfruits of those who have fallen asleep… For He must reign until He has put all His enemies under His feet. THE LAST ENEMY TO BE DESTROYED IS DEATH.” {I Corinthians 15:17-20, 25-26}ReplyCancel

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  • Karis - Thinking and praying for you this morning. I’ve followed your blog for the last few months and am continually inspired by you. I lost my niece three years ago on Feb. 14th and my sister has since had a son. So I can relate to a lot of your posts. Thanks for sharing your story and your hope in the Lord!ReplyCancel

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  • TimandCeri - Praying for you today. Thank you for your never failing faith.ReplyCancel

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  • AKK - You and your beautiful family are in my thoughts and prayers today. I am sure that Cora is smiling down on you and watching her little brothers with a smile on her face!ReplyCancel

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  • Heather - You are in my prayers. I wish I could offer you more. But I have prayed for you. I do pray for you. I will pray for you. My heart breaks all over again for you. I remember exactly where I was when I read of Cora’s passing. My son was only one month younger than Cora when she passed. I looked at him and couldn’t even imagine losing him and couldn’t even fathom the pain that you felt. I can’t fathom the pain that you still feel. So I pray. Pray for your comfort. Pray for healing. Pray that you feel the love and support of those around you and those that don’t even know you from far away places. Pray that you will feel the embrace of our Lord and Savior as he surrounds you with his love and shares in your grief. Pray that you will find comfort in knowing that your sweet little Cora touched the lives and hearts of so many people around the world. Sending love and prayers from one of those that she touched <3

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  • Eunice Johnson - Thinking about you all today. Your boys are precious and are growing so fastReplyCancel

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  • Beth Ann - Jess, I am not sure I have ever commented before, but have been peeking at your blog for several years now. I wanted to know that I have been thinking of you and your family.ReplyCancel

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  • babies - thinking of you daily
    remembering your girl
    thankful for my kidsReplyCancel

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  • Anonymous - Just wanted to say that you and your precious family are in my prayers this week especially. May God cover you with love.
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  • Tara - Thinking of sweet Cora today:)ReplyCancel

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  • Auntie Mip - With love for the Mac’s today and always! May Levi and Griffin fill your heart and arms until you are old, gray and surrounded by granchildren and are called to hold Cora once more.

    Sleep with angels precious Cora!ReplyCancel

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  • teresa - especially praying for you during this time. ((((((hugs)))))ReplyCancel

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  • Anonymous - Thought of your sweet family yesterday. Sending lots of prayers to you all. My family thinks, talks and prays for your sweet family. My 3 year old knows the pictures he sees are your sweet Cora.

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  • Talysa - I am new here and I wanted to ask what you paint color is on your wall…I love it. But then I felt like a big jerk for making that the first thing I say to you when I have read of the tremendous loss you have suffered in the past few years. Your story about Cora is heartbreaking and inspiring all at the same time. Thank you for living out your faith in a way most of us cannot begin to imagine. It truly has blessed me today. 🙂 Oh and I all kinds of love that chalkboard too. Did you build it or is it a real one?ReplyCancel

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  • Talysa - Ok, so reading back I still feel like a jerk. :-/ReplyCancel

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