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We have been enjoying some much needed 
sunshine and warmer weather this week.
Levi is loving every minute of being outside.
Summer please come soon!
Happy weekend!
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  • Rebecca - He is so stinkin’ cute!!! I love the green shirt and vest. And I am completely jealous of Kansas weather that allows you to be outside w/o any kind of snow/winter gear in January.ReplyCancel

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  • Alicia - You take great pictures! What kind of camera do you have?ReplyCancel

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  • Clare - We have too! We are in the KC area though so it wasn’t as crazy warm as it was around you!

    Levi is such a well dressed cutie!ReplyCancel

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  • Mindy Harris - you’ve got some photog skillz! yeah where does levi shop?
    today was splendid outside; i ran my long run–struggled a bit, but made it.ReplyCancel

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  • Lindsey - is it just me, or does this little handsome look like he’s all grown up since his first birthday? he’s so beautiful.ReplyCancel

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  • Carla - Oh such a handsome boy, love the check shirt 🙂ReplyCancel

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  • EricaG - I just learned of your blog a few days ago. It is a beautiful combination of a wonderful images, challenging thoughts, and huge doses of hope and faith. I’m excited to be along for your journey from this point forward.ReplyCancel

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  • The Branches - He is so precious I love all the photos you take of him and how you dress him. I have an 11 month old little boy and I am so in love with him 🙂 Who said boys aren’t fun to dress up and stuff too right? He’s just adorable!ReplyCancel

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  • Marla Taviano - I wish I looked that cute in MY green vest!!ReplyCancel

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I first read Tyranny of the Urgent by Charles E. Hummel last year. The small group Joel and I lead had started a new Navigators series (The New 2:7 Series…SO good) last fall and part of our homework was to read Tyranny of the Urgent. I was captivated by the article after reading just the first sentence…

Have you ever wished for a thirty-hour day?

Of course. Everyone needs more time in their day, right? I know I do. So, what do I have to do to fit more into my day? I bet you want to know too. I kept reading and was so surprised and convicted by what I read. I read the article again. I read it again and underlined. The ideas in this article and where it pointed me to in the Bible became part of my longing to be more intentional this year and for the rest of my life.

When we stop to evaluate, we realize that our dilemma goes deeper than shortage of time; it is basically the problem of priorities.

Your greatest danger is letting the urgent things crowd out the important.

We live in constant tension between the urgent and the important. The problem is that the important task rarely must be done today or even this week.

Wow. I thought that I was doing pretty good at keeping my priorities straight. After all, I know how short life can be and how in one day our lives can be totally turned upside down. Our time with people is precious and how we choose to spend our time is so important. But, as I sat and thought about how often I give into the urgent things, the things that are pressing for my time, I realized that I much too often let the urgent crowd out the important.

Hummel goes on to give examples from the life of Jesus.

The Gospel records show that Jesus worked hard…Yet his life was never feverish; he had time for people.

His life showed a wonderful balance, a sense of timing.

Here is the secret of Jesus’ life and work for God: He prayerfully waited for his Father’s instructions and for the strength to follow them. Jesus had no divinely-drawn blueprint; he discerned the Father’s will day by day in a life of prayer. By this means he warded off the urgent and accomplished the important.

I want to pattern my life after Jesus. I want to work hard, yet have time for people. I want to have balance and a sense of timing in my life. I want to prayerfully wait for my Father’s instructions and the strength to follow them. I want to discern His will for my life day by day in a life of prayer.

If you haven’t read Tyranny of the Urgent, go do it now. I promise it is worth your time. But be prepared. It might be convicting. It might even be life changing. But like Hummel says, what could be better than knowing that this day, this hour, in this place we are doing the will of the Father?

I think I need to go evaluate my priorities again…

**Tryanny of the Urgent by Charles E. Hummel

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  • Pamela - Oh, what a good post. I think even if we are doing what God wants, we can over-do it. Time is my word this year and it’s amazing how many posts I read that apply to it. Thank you for doing what God gave you to do so I can be challenged and blessed.ReplyCancel

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  • Rob and Corrie - Thank you for “voicing” this. I was diagnosed w/Lyme Disease in ’03 at the age of 21. One of the most important lessons the LORD taught be thro’ that time was to BE INTENTIONAL. All of a sudden I had a body that wouldn’t keep up…and it turned out to be the best thing for me! My verse for 2011 is Luke 10:42…”few things are needed—or indeed only one. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.” I want to CHOOSE what is NEEDED.
    Love in Christ!ReplyCancel

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  • Chris, Kerri, & The Boys - Hello,
    I have followed your blog since before Cora past away. I have enjoyed reading your blog. I have never really known what to say or even how find the words to write on how Cora’s life touched me and how your process of dealing with it has made me want to be a better person. We are not even of the same faith, live in totally different states, yet I feel like I know you personally ( I hope that you do not think that makes me a creepo..LOL) I just felt inspired and say something finally and express how thankful and grateful I am for your loving family. I have truly come to know God more though your testimony. I know that our Father in Heaven has many mansions in Heaven and one of them is where Cora awaits for you until the crowning day. May Christ himself bless you sweet family:)ReplyCancel

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  • Anonymous - This post really hit home to me. It was exactly what I needed to be reminded of these days. I am totally guilty of letting the urgent crowd out the important. Thank you for the good reminder!ReplyCancel

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  • Shellbells - awesome food for thought my dear…i too need to reevaluate my priorityies and the importance of the order…prayer will be going up around here so that I can get it right…thanks for the post..xxReplyCancel

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  • Cristin - Thank you for sharing. I love what you said regarding “Your greatest danger is letting the urgent things crowd out the important.” It’s so true. Sometimes we all need a reminder of what’s important.ReplyCancel

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  • mommaof4wife2r - thank you for this post…thank you. a great reminder and so needed.ReplyCancel

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  • nichole - Thank you for this post. I find myself always thinking and really praying after reading your blog. I leave so inspired. My walk is better, I know!ReplyCancel

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  • Anonymous - Wow. My dear, we are the same age but I feel you are wiser beyond your years. I often read your blog for inspiration. thank you so much for sharing.ReplyCancel

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  • Marc, Sarah, and Luke - Hey Jess — Thanks for “linking” this article. I actually think Marc and I are going to use it in our small group this weekend….There are some things in the article that really “speak” to a couple of different things we’ve been talking about in our group.ReplyCancel

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  • the breedens - did you see that he also has a book called Freedom from Tyranny of the Urgent, that expands on this topic?ReplyCancel

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Monday.
My grandparents came out to our house for lunch.
It was so nice to just sit around and talk with them.
And my grandma spent lots of time playing with Levi on the floor.
I’m pretty sure he was in heaven.
She built him tower after tower out of blocks to knock over.
He thought it was so funny every time.
In the evening Levi’s cousins came over to hang out.
They pulled all the chairs out in the kitchen to “help” Joel.
Ellie was instructing everyone where to sit…
and maybe giving a few kisses too.
We made pizzas using the PW pizza crust recipe.
Joel and Ellie were in charge of the toppings.
Lots of little helping hands.
Lets just pretend there were no licking fingers or germs involved.
And here are our finished pizzas.
Ellie came up with the idea of turning the pizzas into heads.
So here are our smiling pizza heads.
They were so yummy…we will definitely be making PW pizzas again.
I didn’t get much done yesterday besides playing and eating and talking,
but it sure was a fun day.
Lots of memories made on Monday.
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  • Mindy M. Harris - looks like a blast! where’d all your vintage distressed children’s chairs come from?
    diggin’ them.ReplyCancel

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  • Jenny - so fun. you are such a good mama!ReplyCancel

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  • The Moffats - love it. you really are so blessed to have your grandparents close by and in good health 😉 I mean, SERIOUSLY, look at grandma on the FLOOR!!! That first pic of them with Levi is priceless. And Ellie and Tripp are so stinkin cute too. I bet they had a blast.ReplyCancel

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  • Anonymous - Aww Levi looks just like his big cousins! What cuties!ReplyCancel

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  • The Farmers - Those are the best days. You won’t remember what chores you check of the list in years to come but you will remember these sweet moments.ReplyCancel

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  • Katie&Greg - super cute! And I always try to tell myself that if its going in the hot oven, the germs get cooked off! ;0)ReplyCancel

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  • Wanting What I Have - That second picture of your grandmother on the floor with Levi – seeing her expression and knowing how precious it is to have grandparents alive and a part of our children’s lives – it just made me choke up. What a sweet day for your family!ReplyCancel

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  • Honey - Those pictures of your grandparents with Levi are precious!!! The pizza ones look pretty good as well. 🙂ReplyCancel

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  • Danise - Ahhhhhh – PW!ReplyCancel

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  • The Mershawn's - We make PW pizza every Sunday night, after church, & eat it when the kids are in bed:). Mmm…
    You’re such an awesome aunt. And…I love, love grandparents. They make your heart mushy. So glad you still have them to enjoy your sweet Levi.ReplyCancel

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  • The Mershawn's - Oh…and Joel’s an awesome uncle too! Clearly.ReplyCancel

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  • Lyssa at Living Simple in the South - Sweet Post as always! Love all those little chairs, where did you get them? Levi is so stinkin cute!ReplyCancel

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  • Anonymous - I just found your blog yesterday (looking for party decorations) and I’m so glad I did! My heart was aching as I read your story; my cousin and his wife just lost their little girl in November. Thank you for being such a witness as the Lord asked you to go through such a dark valley. – LauraCReplyCancel

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  • Nancy - So happy you had a good day!
    Hope today is just as fun 🙂ReplyCancel

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  • Nicole - Thank you for following up! We found the containers at Bed, Bath and Beyond! We are thrilled!ReplyCancel

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  • John and Elisa Seaba - The picture of your Grandma with Levi is precious, i’m sure that will be a treasured picture!ReplyCancel

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  • Kimberley - Adorable pictures!!
    Question: where did you get the cube shelf and baskets? I’ve admired them for a while! =)ReplyCancel

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Way back in December Levi took his first step.
I was sure he was going to be walking by his birthday.
But he has taken his sweet time to get past two or three steps.
And he still prefers to crawl because it is much faster.
Just in the last few weeks, he has finally gotten brave 
and now is taking quite a few steps at a time.
But every time I pull out the camera and try to capture him walking,
he gives me this look…please put the camera away Mama.
(Which reminds me so much of a similar look his sister once gave me.)
Or as soon as I say…Levi can you walk to Mama,
he plops down and starts laughing.
He thinks he is so funny.
But today he decided that he was ready to show me his new skills.
Here he is…
officially…
WALKING!
It is a good thing Levi has decided to walk.
He is about to wear a huge hole in the right knee of his jeans
from the crazy way he crawls.
I know…I’m sure it is only the first of many holes to come!
Levi is so slow and careful with each step he takes.
It is funny to watch him concentrate so hard.
Much different than everything else he does!
As I was thinking about how fast Levi is growing 
and this new stage of having a walker now,
I was reminded of one of the verses that we chose for Levi:
True instruction was in his mouth and nothing false was found on his lips. He walked with me in peace and uprightness, and turned many from sin.
Malachi 2:6

That continues to be my prayer for Levi’s life.
That he would grow to be a man who walks with Jesus.
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  • A Family of Love - How sweet! Love the smile!ReplyCancel

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  • Sharon - What awesomeness! He looks totally adorable, all I can think is you are really in trouble now! Blessings to you all!ReplyCancel

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  • The Mershawn's - Way to go Levi! I love, love walking babies. I’m sure that boy will get moving fast enough…our’s sure keeps us on our toes. Sooo cute & so fun.ReplyCancel

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  • Annie-Staten - Where do you find all his cute clothes? (I seriously would love to know!) And those jeans are SO darn cute!ReplyCancel

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  • DaisyJo - Soooo cute! And a striped-shirt in each photo. 😉ReplyCancel

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  • Nancy - YAY! What a big boy now!
    He’s so cute!!ReplyCancel

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  • Sarah - yay! go Levi! I think he has a “Joel look” in that first photo.ReplyCancel

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  • Liza T - Hi Jess,
    I am a long, long time reader (I tuned in right about the time Cora started to get persistently sick) but first time poster. I remember the day I read the words “Cora is with Jesus today” and like many others I’m sure…I sobbed until I was tearless. Not for Cora…who was finally, blessedly free of pain and cancer…but for you and Joel; I simply couldn’t find any words to convey my sadness for you. Everything seemed “not enough”. So, also like many others I imagine, I was with you in spirit, holding you up in prayer– so very grateful that it seemed you had a loving family support system to hold you up in person.

    When you announced Levi’s impending arrival…I wept again–this time too I could not find the words but it was because there was no word to describe the joy I felt for you and Joel!

    What moved me to write today was seeing the comparison of two photos….the one of Levi sitting on the floor, laughing hysterically…and the one of Cora on the sidebar- sitting in the grass, laughing hysterically 🙂 Both looking up, both dressed in green tops and jeans…it just struck me how it must be such a hard balance for you not to constantly find yourself SO reminded of Cora…but also to let yourself be swept up in their similarities sometimes; they ARE brother and sister after all.

    It just struck me as the right time to let you know so many are still praying for you, still lifting you up, still remembering and praising God for the precious life and lifelong lessons of Cora Paige.

    I’m so thankful for your openness, especially in the wake of such hardship…it has been a blessing to me in my life as I rightly minimize my struggles and remember that you choose joy every day after the most wrenching loss possible.

    Sorry to make up for all of my absentee comments with one giant one! Like Levi and his steps…now that I have finally done it, I will definitely comment more often.

    Love, peace, grace, and thanks… 🙂ReplyCancel

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  • MICHELE - seriously one of the handsomest boys I have seen.ReplyCancel

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  • Tricia - I love that Levi waited until he had mastered his skills to show them off properly. Much love, Jess. Now it’s time to baby-proof again. Tee hee!

    xo*triciaReplyCancel

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  • Mindy M. Harris - precious precious.
    i think he is a carbon copy of joel. 🙂ReplyCancel

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  • Janet - What a sweet boy!ReplyCancel

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  • Stephanie - I’ve been following your blog for a long time now but have never commented.

    Levi is just adorable!!!! I have 3 older boys and 1 little girl – my boys have holes in their pants on a monthly basis it seems like!

    You have the best lighting in your house – your pictures are always so bright and crisp – I’m jealous!ReplyCancel

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  • Kristin Stegent - So cute!

    Our kids walk SO late, so I have learned to drop all expectations. haha. Our 15 month old is close, which is much sooner than her older two siblings walked. 😉ReplyCancel

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  • Melinda@This Mama's Heart - Go Levi go! He’s such an adorable little guy!

    And I agree, always the cutest clothes! Would love to know where the jeans came from, I have the hardest time finding cute jeans for my little guy 🙂ReplyCancel

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  • Bridget - Good for him! My boys have holes in their jeans STILL and they are 10 and almost 7. It’s a boy thing I guess. 🙂 He looks so proud and strong!ReplyCancel

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  • Geo - This is so precious!
    Look at the little man walking!ReplyCancel

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  • Aaron and Shannon - Yay Levi! Before you know it you’ll be running after him! 🙂ReplyCancel

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  • Sadie - Beautiful post. He is so stinking cute!ReplyCancel

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  • The Buchanan Family - He does look like his big sister in that pic. Love to see him walking-such a cute lil’ fellow!ReplyCancel

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  • Martha - Yeah, Levi! How adorable. I love how you captured the moment. He looks so proud of himself – as he should be!ReplyCancel

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  • John and Elisa Seaba - I absolutely love the look on his face in that first picture! Soo cute!! And yes, the first of many holes…you are right! 🙂ReplyCancel

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  • Andrea - Yeah Levi!

    I love your updates of Levi, Jess – he is so precious! I think it’s also because he reminds me of my youngest with those big brown eyes. 🙂ReplyCancel

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  • Sandra - He is such a sweet and big boy and you take beautiful photos from him.

    Best wishes form Europe!
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  • Julie B. - You dress Levi SO much like I used to dress my son, Hunter:) So little and yet so little “man” looking!
    Just recently, Hunter (who is now a sweet 8 year old!), told me that he “needed a pair of ripped up Abercrombie jeans”. Come again?! I nearly fell over -then, I really DID fall over when I searched abercrombie kids online and saw that kid’s jeans were *only* $70 a pair!! So, yeah. Get ready. ‘Cus even boys that we dress adorable as toddler, will turn into Abercrombie-type young men. Eeeeeek!!ReplyCancel

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  • The Veers - he is so stinkin cute!!!!ReplyCancel

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  • Megan - Levi has the best clothes. When I had my boy I was scared. My girl was much easier to shop for. Boys are boring. Levi is NOT boring. Where do you get his jeans?ReplyCancel

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  • Miss G - so adorable! Isn’t it just the best when our boys laugh at us. I just love it. KellyReplyCancel

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  • Kelly - Levi is so adorable, I love these pictures of him! So exciting he is walking!
    I was wondering, Jess, does he still use the blue denim-colored blanket I knitted for him? I just started making a rose pink one right now for our church’s children’s church pastor as she is due in June with her first little girl…and I was thinking of the blue one I sent for sweet little Levi when he was born…. I really love making baby blankets and hats and booties and give them away to new babies, I hope it blesses them as much as it does me to make them!ReplyCancel

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  • NicXOXO - You should sign up at Sears for their Kidvantage program. Any kids clothing or shoe item that you buy can be exchanged for free if they wear it out before they outgrow it. You don’t even need a receipt as long as it’s not something like Levi jeans. It’s a great program!ReplyCancel

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I have never reflected on the past year and anticipated the year to come as much as I did when 2010 rolled over to 2011. I have been praying about what God has in store for me and my family this year. I know very well that we don’t always know what lies ahead in the year to come. Sometimes there are unexpected joys and sometimes there are unexpected sorrows. I’d like to tell you that I know exactly what this year holds, but I don’t. What I do know is that each day that the Lord gives me this year is a gift. I know that I don’t want this year to “just happen”. I know that I don’t want to waste these precious days. I know that I want to be intentional.

As I thought about my goals and priorities for this year I kept coming back to how I really needed to work on being intentional in all of those areas. I want to be intentional in my time with the Lord everyday. I want to be intentional in my prayer life. I want to be intentional in filling my mind with Truth. I want to be intentional in how I love and respect Joel. I want to be intentional in how I love and teach and discipline Levi. I want to be intentional in how I manage my time as a stay-at-home mom. I want to be intentional in creating order and a peaceful atmosphere in my home. I want to be intentional in my relationships with family and friends. I want to be intentional in showing God’s love to those around me. I want to be intentional in continuing to share my story.

I could go on and on. But when I think about all the areas in my life that I need to be intentional in…all the areas that I need to improve on…all the areas I need to grow in…it gets overwhelming. It makes me want to quit right now. Thankfully, even though I will fail miserably many times, I don’t have to do it on my own. In fact, I can’t do this on my own. What a relief since it is only January and I have many months to go! This being intentional thing is going to take some major discipline on my part. It is going to mean laying aside some things that I would rather do, to invest in the people and priorities God has placed in my life. But as I seek God, he will give me the strength I need to live intentionally. Wouldn’t it be great if I got to the end of the year and could put a check in the box that meant I learned to be intentional!? Unfortunately, it doesn’t work like that. Just like walking through grief, learning to be intentional is going to be a lifelong journey of allowing the Lord to work in me.

This sweet boy needs a mama who is intentional. So this is what I am asking myself: Am I making my own plans or seeking God’s guidance for what he wants to accomplish in and through me this year? I want to be intentional. And I want to be intentionally seeking Him each day.
We plan the way we want to live,
but only God makes us able to live it.
Proverbs 16:9 (The Message)
I will share more later about what I am doing to grow in this area of being intentional. What about you? What are you doing to be intentional this year? I would love to hear.
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  • Tara - that’s my goal this year too! i felt like i was just coasting and i desperately desire to know at the end of my life that i lived every moment full of purpose and intention. i would love to hear more about what you’re doing to be more intentional!ReplyCancel

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  • CassJustCurious - I’m working towards that too. I’m not sure why this particular post touched me so. But I’m going to tell you that you helped me on my path to find Jesus. And I’m really grateful for that with such a full heart I have tears in my eyes. Your faith, your love, how that reflects in your eyes and in your relationships, as a mom and as a wife is inspiring to me.

    So, thank you.ReplyCancel

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  • The Schilling's from Cimarron - Jess,

    WOW what an awesome post once again. I actually printed this off and have it on my fridge to read EVERY Day! Thank you for reminding me to be “intentional” in all that I do. Sometimes, life gets soooo busy that I forget to remember what is important. You truly are an inspiration to me, and I thank God daily that you all came into our lives! Take care and Thank you!

    Love to you all!

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  • Angie - I’ve been following your blog for a while and I love this post. Your actions are a great testimony of your faithful walk with Jesus. I too wake up everyday being grateful for another day in my life. Beautiful message! I need to be more intentional as well so I’m looking forward to your future posts regarding this…
    Thanks and God Bless!ReplyCancel

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  • Meg - I think that is a beautiful goal. One that you will always have to work to achieve and one that will always be fulfilling.ReplyCancel

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  • Bridget - I am a SAHM of 3 but now all are in school. I was excited about this stage in life but over-committed myself. I had to have some frank conversations about time committments and have pulled back. I am becoming more intentional in my role as a SAHM with kids in school. It sounds so vague but it’s something my family needs. Hubby is gone on business trips a lot so the responsibilities fall on me, which is fine, I just need to get a handle on it all. Best of luck to you!ReplyCancel

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  • flower power momma - While sorting closets I ran across The Daily Walk Bible. My intention has been to read the suggested scriptures daily.
    Missed a 2 weeks, but on track now.

    It’s exciting to see how God is using you and your life experiences in others lives. Yeah God!ReplyCancel

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  • Pamela - Solomon said there is a time for everything, tears/joy, life/death, plant/harvest…I think we need to ask God what time Of intentional living is it for me today? Broken down into days makes it work so much easier for me.ReplyCancel

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  • Everday Edwards - Intentional is my favorite word. Being intentional is my life goal. Great post!

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  • The Muncies - blog follower for a while now — coming out of the cracks!

    i love this article about keeping goals:
    http://www.aholyexperience.com/2011/01/5-steps-to-making-new-years-resolutions-happen/ReplyCancel

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  • The Mershawn's - I love that intentional is a frequently used in my vocabulary. Now if only I could be as intentional as I want:).

    But…I am working. My goal this year is to be intentional about: putting the Lord 1st (in my time, family, money…), being with my kids & enjoying the moments instead of worrying & fretting over things I can’t change, more discipline in my daily routine, & having a home that a tired husband longs to come home to after a long day.

    As long as I can put the Lord 1st, I know He’ll help me! Putting yourself aside is the biggest part of being intentional I’m finding & I’m so glad you mentioned it…reassurance. Thanks for being so open. It’s like a breath of fresh air…ReplyCancel

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  • Devon - wow…i have a blog post brewing in my head that i was going to entiltle “deliberate” — same ideas as your post. i love it.

    i’m going to be (or at least try) to be intentional with my quiet times with the lord, in loving my husband, in instilling good traits in my girls, in getting financial set and spending wisely and in taking care of my body.

    its not easy but i really feel the lord pressing on my heart…..thanks for sharing!ReplyCancel

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  • Judy - We just started something new with our kids (Ages 5 & 3 and one due in March) that so far I LOVE!!!!

    Every night we do “the candle.” We have a special candle that we light and the four of us sit on the couch and read a Bible story. Sometimes we color a picture to go with it. Sometimes we act it out. Sometimes we look at a short video clip online that has to do with the story, etc. Then we sing a worship song together (Open the Eyes of my Heart Lord has been the fav. this week) and then each person takes a turn praying! You should hear my little sweet three year old pray! Oh it’s precious. Then the kids get a bedtime snack and it’s off to bed for the night. It’s been great so far. We’ve skipped a night here and there and I feel like that’s okay. Our goal is to just do it most of the time. My husband and I decided that this year we need to be intentional about teaching our kid’s God’s word b/c God gave them to us, so it’s our job (not the job of a Sun. School teacher 2 hours a week).

    Grandmom is coming over to babysit tonight and the first thing my son asked was “Does she know how to do the candle?” So cute. Amazing that we’re only on day 20 and it’s already a big part of their day!ReplyCancel

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  • My name is Amee - Wow! You have summed it up. “Intentional” is exactly what I need to be but didn’t really realize it until I read your post!!I feel like like I have just been coasting along (especially 2010 alot happened..new job..) so I’ve been trying to do better since Jan 1st. Now I’m going to really try to do even better!!! Thank you so much for posting such a wondeful inspiring post!
    I can’t wait to hear more about your intentional goals! 🙂ReplyCancel

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  • Judy - It’s me again… just wanted to share one more thing that my husband and I decided to be intentional about with our kiddos.

    We’re adding a new baby brother to the family in March, so we decided to be intentional for the entire month of February in showing our kids how greatly they are loved by their family and by Jesus. We want to fill their “love tanks” up as much as we can before the new baby comes and Valentine’s month is the perfect time to do it.

    The Plan:
    We’re going to make Valentine Mailboxes out of Cereal boxes. They’re going to hang them on the door knob to their room and each morning they will find a message of love in their mailbox. A note from mommy or daddy. A card. A Hershey Kiss. A Bible verse that talks about how Jesus loves them or how God created them so perfectly. etc. I’m going to have grandparents and aunts and uncles send special notes and I’m going to have my kids make each other surprise through out the month to put in the mailbox for each other. Their mailboxes are not going to be for toys or gifts…just messages of love. I think it will be so fun for them to wake up to each morning. And I’m excited for their days to start out by hearing how greatly they are loved by their family and by their Heavenly Father! They hear me tell them all the time that I love them, but I want them to understand deep in their hearts all the unique things I love about them and how loved they are by Jesus.ReplyCancel

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  • This is the day! - What a great post! I need to be intentional with my prayer life and quiet time with the Lord. Our church is starting a new series called Greater Things and we are doing a church wide 21 day fast. I am so excited about what God has in store.ReplyCancel

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  • Angie - This is awesome and just what I needed to read. I just became a mom to a sweet baby girl and feel so incredibly blessed. I am going to be intentional on being the best mom, wife and sister in Christ that I can be.

    Thanks for sharing! I cant wait to start to be intentional on so many things that have been slacking in my life.ReplyCancel

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  • Kylie and crew. - I’m working on being intentional with my time…especially during the waking hours of my children and more importantly being intentional with my quiet time! I do well for awhile and then…I get too busy for awhile. I can tell such a difference when I’m in the Word!!ReplyCancel

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  • Melissa - Intentional is one of my very favorite words. It is also one that my husband uses to describe me because he says that I say anything done without being intentional is just really in vain.

    Being intentional takes effort from me. It takes that extra moment to stop and really make what I’m doing count…not just for today, but for eternity. I was created to serve HIM, to bring HIM glory. If my everyday words, actions & thoughts are not intentional then they are self-made and those don’t count.

    I am in it for the long run because I know it will take me all of life and the many seasons I will journey through to learn how to continually be intentional.

    Thank you for your words of encouragement! It is so fun to know there are other women out there in this big world just living out life in all the diapers, homework, dinners, dishes, husband-loving, child-rearing day-to-day life really wanting to please God!ReplyCancel

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  • mama b - i’m in the middle of reading Radical by David Platt – whew!! that is a HEAVY and challenging read. we as americans just don’t “get” how risky it should be to be Christians. anyway, as part of his recommended “radical experiment” i’m trying my hardest to read through the Bible in 2011. yiiikes! that intimidates me! i’m also trying to be more sacrificial in my giving…of my time, resources, etc. not just out of excess, but so much that it stings a little.ReplyCancel

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  • Les - I also just read Radical like the commenter above me and I’m being intentional on reading the Bible daily. I found my “Bible in a Year” and started on the first of the year. I’m also wanting to be intentional in serving the community around me… even the neighbors next door.ReplyCancel

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  • Sarah B - Beautifully put. Intentional. Thank you for the inspiration to put this word on my dashboard.ReplyCancel

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  • Mindy M. Harris - Jess, thank you for sharing your heart on the matter of intentionality. God is showing me that while I have a natural tendency to be intentional with my friends, I leave the leftovers for my family, for God. My friends will forever be important to me, and I need them, I’m going to focus more on quality time with the Lord, and with my family.I also felt convicted about the order in the home part that you wrote about (I hate cleaning!)…
    I agree in prayer with you that the Lord will guide you in all the ways you desire to be intentional.ReplyCancel

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  • k and c's mom - This is exactly my goal for the year, but I called it “focused”. I want to choose people over activities that seem more pressing. I want to look my second grade students in the eyes when they are telling me stories, and pay total attention (even when they go on a wee bit too long!) I want to consult God first and not my “To Do” list each day. I want to lift my calendar and checkbook to God and say, “What would YOU have me do with these?” Let’s walk 365 days this year with intentional focus and see how it changes our lives.ReplyCancel

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  • L ~ S - I’ve never thoought of that phrase before, but I REALLY like it!ReplyCancel

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  • Courtney - Love this…so true! Maybe you can re-post it once a week as a reminder/wake up call when us moms and women get buried with the craziness of life. 🙂 I’m doing Beth Moore’s scripture memory where you pick out a bible verse of your own choice and post it on her blog on the 1st and 15th of each month. I need this accountability and structure and it is a good way to keep my mind filled with truth in a very busy and stressful season of life. blog.lproof.orgReplyCancel

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  • nichole - How encouraging your post is to me! I try to remember when I’m struggling in this area, that one day I will stand accountable to every thought, every word, every action. I want to be pleasing to the LORD, I want Him to be happy with me! This often gives me the extra boost I need to keep trying to be intentional!ReplyCancel

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  • the brokaws - What a great post. I could go on and on about the things I want to be intentional about too. Thanks so much for the reminder and your encouragement!ReplyCancel

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  • ~Momma~ - What a great post! It goes hand in hand with my new goal this year which is to “clean up” my relationships with some extended family members. Too often I find myself taking a passive role with others which leads me down the path of feeling like I have to please them and then I find myself on the receiving end of their hostility when I inevitably fail.

    In my current Beth Moore workbook “When godly people do ungodly things” she gave a great illustration for me to keep in mind with all of my relationships. That is, rather than get “entangled” with others, I should try to imagine the cross between me and the other person. The horizontal line represents the love and continued relationship while the vertical line represents clear boundaries. I love that visual and it keeps everything very simple and clean.

    Thanks to your post, I’m going to add the word “intentional” into my goal and be much more intentional with my desire to put my relationship with God, my husband & my children first while continuing my relationships with others in a loving, clean and INTENTIONAL way. Thanks!ReplyCancel

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